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Why Philos works the way it does: the 49 places, a feed that ends, and the things we chose not to build.

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  • Four friends with backpacks walking up a mountain path together
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    Why Philos has room for only 49 people

    Every dot in our logo is someone. Here's why we stopped at 49, and why nobody moves when someone leaves.

    By Luca · 2 min read · 26 Oct 2026

  • A crowded beach of blue umbrellas below a seaside town
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    What happens to a photo after you post it publicly

    A photo carries more than the picture, and public photos travel further than you think. Location data, face-search databases, AI training, and how to keep photos close.

    By Suhail · 3 min read · 24 Oct 2026

  • Two friends sitting on a beach at sunset, watching the sea
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    Why your feed ends

    When you've seen your people, Philos says you're all caught up. Here's why we stop there, and what we do instead of keeping you scrolling.

    By Luca · 1 min read · 19 Oct 2026

  • A stallholder serving a customer at an outdoor fruit and vegetable market
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    Strong ties, weak ties: who belongs in your 49

    The friend of a friend who found you a job, and the sister who'd drive through the night. Why you need both kinds of tie, and why Philos is built for the second.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 18 Oct 2026

  • Friends laughing together around a dinner table
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    Names, never numbers

    Philos shows who responded to what you shared, not a count of likes. Here's what changes when the number goes away.

    By Luca · 1 min read · 15 Oct 2026

  • An old radio on a stone shelf
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    We now switch screens every 47 seconds

    A researcher has timed how long we stay on one screen for twenty years. It fell from two and a half minutes to 47 seconds. What breaks our focus, and what helps.

    By Luca · 4 min read · 13 Oct 2026

  • A family sharing dinner around a kitchen table
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    Why there's no forward button

    Only you choose who sees what you share, so nothing on Philos can be passed on. Here's why we left the button out, and what it can't stop.

    By Suhail · 1 min read · 12 Oct 2026

  • A mother holding up a tablet to take a photo while her two small children play beside her
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    Your photos don't train AI

    Philos doesn't use your photos or messages to train AI. Here's why that matters, especially for photos of children.

    By Suhail · 1 min read · 8 Oct 2026

  • Hands reaching across a table full of shared dishes
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    The moai: Okinawa's circles of friends for life

    In Okinawa, groups of friends meet for decades, some since primary school. Where the moai came from, Europe's own versions, and how to start one with your people.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 3 Oct 2026

  • A small cup of coffee with a spoon on its saucer
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    Why a short message means more than you think

    We put off messaging old friends because it feels awkward. Research with thousands of people found they're far gladder to hear from us than we expect.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 25 Sept 2026

  • Washing hung on lines across a narrow street in Rome, with a small red car parked below
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    Lonely, with hundreds of followers

    We've never been so connected, and governments now appoint ministers for loneliness. Why a feed full of people can still leave you hungry, and what feeds us instead.

    By Luca · 4 min read · 21 Sept 2026

  • Two people sitting close together on a rock by a mountain lake
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    What 88 years of the Harvard happiness study found

    Since 1938, Harvard researchers have followed hundreds of lives from youth to old age. Their clearest finding isn't about money or fame. It's about your people.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 11 Sept 2026

  • Rome's rooftops and church domes at dusk, thousands of homes side by side
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    The Christmas card list behind Dunbar's number

    An anthropologist counted Christmas cards and found the shape of our friendships. What Dunbar's number says, what it doesn't, and where 49 fits in.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 7 Sept 2026

  • The dome of St Peter's in Rome lit up at dusk above the city's rooftops
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    The living room and the town square

    Social media turned our photo albums into speeches in a public square. Why the room you share in changes what you share, and why Philos is built as a living room.

    By Luca · 3 min read · 2 Sept 2026

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